words & art by shé

V-Day

It’s 2008. My best friend (yes, canine) had transitioned more than a month ago, and the loss was tremendous. I had to do something to express my continuing love for him. “Would you be interested in a guerrilla poetry action?” I asked a new human friend, Shannon, a talented artist. “Yes!” she said. And so the Love Fairies were born, and the first Emmett Event commenced, dateline, Valentine’s Day.

There were three of us, including Emmett’s mother-in-dog (he had been married to Dinah’s dog Sasha). We wore costumes, of course, all reds and pinks with glitter and glam, painted our faces, and secured big-ass flowers in our hair. We were glorious — love incarnate.

Downtown that evening, we wandered the streets, strolled through parks, and along the way handed out small square cards I had created. One side featured a black and white photo of Emmett with the bright red caption, Love-Dog. The other side — in a large, black, adamant font — read, you are loved

“Happy Valentine’s Day!” we said to one and all, living proof that V-Day is not just for couples, everyone is loved, regardless. After a few hours, we went in the library with the last of the cards, and I sat while the other Love Fairies made a quiet circuit. I was tired. Sad. And completely satisfied. May we feel loved, every day.

"Golden Heart" by Shé, 9" x 12" acrylic on paper, 2025
Golden Heart by Shé, 9″ x 12″ acrylic on paper, 2025

4 responses to “V-Day”

  1. Shannon Stewart Avatar
    Shannon Stewart

    Happy Valentine’s Day my friend. It is fun to see our story in print continuing the tradition of sharing love with others. I look forward to your posts and take the time to sit in the present moment and savor every word, every lesson, and absorb the joy you share. I still have the painted stone that you gave me that says “Choose Joy” on my back porch that I see each time I pass through the threshold. Thank you. I hope the sea is calm, the sun is out, and the majestic creatures of the ocean show up for you today.

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    1. Shé Avatar

      I am so glad we met, Shannon. Once a Love Fairy, always a Love Fairy, and you are a Love Fairy Extraordinaire. Thank you for your kind words. I am so pleased you still have the Choose Joy rock, and that the essays resonate with you. XOXO

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  2. kelaw3d9d1d5ed2 Avatar
    kelaw3d9d1d5ed2

    What a great Val Day story. Doing what ya’ll did probably made the day of many who saw you.

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    1. Shé Avatar

      So glad you liked it. Made my day too.

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